Well this is how it's been going.
Night 1: Cried most of the night. I never heard her because I turned off my monitor and shut her door. but the next day all she wanted to do is sleep. So I imagine she didn't get much sleep that night.
Night 2: This time I turned off the monitor but I keep her door open so I could hear her. She woke up at about 1:00 am and I let her cry for one hour. but at that point I felt that if after one hour she wasn't going down, She probably wouldn't, so I went and rocked her. she did well the rest of the night. She might have woke up but she didn't cry hard enough for me to hear her. So she must have done good.
Night 3: Last night she didn't wake up until 5:30 am. Well she might have, but once again I didn't hear her so she must not have cried too hard. She seems to be getting better each night, and I am not feeling so quilty the better she's doing. Hopefully tonight goes even better.